First blog
Well, I wonder if all sorts of crazy men will respond to me just because my blog name has 'Sexy' in it? This is my journey as an old woman now into my 5th year of online dating. Well, actually, my 10th year, if you count the first Match.com date, back when I was still middle-aged, and potentially still sexual. I only went onto Match.com because my ex-husband had been on it before I left him in March 2009, so I thought I'd express my independence by displaying a new man on my arm, contradictory as that may seem! At that stage, I thought I couldn't survive without a man, such was my karma after living so long with a controlling narcissist. Unfortunately, I didn't beat my ex into a new relationship, as he immediately reconnected with his childhood sweetheart from Canberra (as they do!). I call this propensity for old men to scramble back to their youthful sexual memories 'psychological regression'. In the ex's case, his deep connection with her was based...